Read Mama I wanna be a playboy in Saigon to have an idea of what reality looks like (although this example is quite extreme).The truth is that for most of Chinese girls (and let’s not talk about men!From parental pressures to societal stereotypes, get a first hand perspective on Chinese dating in America right here!By Katherine Chong In America, the Chinese community is represented by all walks of life – educated and unschooled, Buddhist and Christian, immigrant and American-born, first generation to sixth.
While the term has several meanings, the most frequent usage refers to two or more people exploring whether they are romantically or sexually compatible by participating in dates with the other.In this article, I will be sharing some of my personal experiences of dating and romance in China and providing some advice on how to deal with the various issues that you may encounter.English seems to be a very “feminine” subject in China so if you are a man teaching English major students at a university in China, you will find yourself surrounded by young female students, some of whom will of course be very pretty! First, a teacher is held in a position of trust and should not betray that trust.I personally know of some foreign teachers who have tried to date their students but although this is sorely tempting, DO NOT under any circumstances date a student. In the UK, romantic relationships between a teacher and a student are illegal and several teachers have been jailed for getting into a sexual relationship with their students. Your students and colleagues will gossip about you.Teachers in China are normally highly respected by students but there is no better way to destroy this respect than to try to seduce a student.The importance of family, honor, and hard work are reflected in all aspects of life, including romantic relationships and dating.